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Can you tell me the best friends with benefits rules so I can make this happen without drama or complication? One note before we get rolling. I am not encouraging or advocating having a friends with benefits arrangement in your life or as a lifestyle. I want you to get what you want for the greatest good of everyone involved. This means no neighbors, no co-workers, no ex-boyfriends, no sex chat for free have sex tonight that are currently your friend and no people within your social circle.

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I've been seeing this girl, Jane, about once per week or once every two weeks for about 7 months now. It started out very casual, but we began talking more free goth chat more as we realized we actually had things in common and liked each other alright, and we've gone on casual dates together here and there also.

I've introduced her to people from work on two occasions different group of people each timeand I helped her move. She is the only girl I've done these sorts of things with, though I have not been monogamous at all as I have a variety of other girls in town and in other towns I visit sometimes who I occasionally hook up with as well as random flings once in awhile. Jane and I talked early on about keeping things light and how neither of us were looking for a relationship, and both of us are very free adult chat alexandria ontario and don't like feeling tied down to anything or anyone, so I didn't see this as a problem However, we recently had a really good day together and were more emotionally intimate, and I this got both of us thinking.

Jane finally spoke up and we talked about us, the whole "what are we" talk, and though she said she's okay with continuing as things are, keeping things light as FWB, it's pretty clear she would like to be more, be exclusive with each other and go on real dates like weekend trips and stuff like bi safe free naked chat on 85.

This would all be fine for most people, but I have a very strong aversion to relationships and "letting people in. I have a very good life as is, and I don't really want to change it at all, and risking going through what I've gone through in the past is kind of too much to even wrap my head around. I like Jane, but I don't see us getting married or anything.

At the same time I don't really want to lose her Any thoughts? Not sure if it matters, but I'm 29 and she's I'd be willing to real sex chat rooms that she is either getting pressure from her friends or her parents to "move" this "friend" thing alanya chat room or find someone who is willing to settle down with her.

My fwb of 7 months wants us to be official bf-gf. i am really struggling with the idea. need input.

Really, what would be ideal would be she be my primary girl but Phone chat for free also occasionally see other girls just for physical fun but nothing emotional. I don't know as if that's really fair to her though since she has stated she has no interest in something like that for herself and that if she and I are together than we need to be exclusive But she is all uptight about opiods and getting hep C. Come on man! Just go steady with the poor girl for chatting indonesia while.

If it doesn't work, you can go right back to your one night stands. If things do not work out, the girlfriend will have plenty of time to find someone. And while you are together, there will not be any biological clock issues.

Also, take a look at what women look like when they are closer to 40 than In a few years, the women in their 20s are going to think food chat are too old and you may think that they are too young.

That will hello any woman for chat you squarely into a demographic of women who are either divorced with a kid or are damaged goods. Do not pass up the opportunity to build a relationship with a nice young girl just because you like playing the field.

The field is not going to get any younger. She probably got tired of you. You're practically She wants you to grow up. This might be a good opportunity to try to seduce her mother. Or her dad.

Or both. Wow chat random not worth having as a girlfriend and you're not a guy worth having. Part ways as soon as you can. Plus there was the dead giveaway:. Showing 1 to 20 of 49 posts. My FWB of 7 months wants us to be official bf-gf.

I am really struggling with the idea. Need input.

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User Options. Back To Index Forum Index. She into butt stuff? If so keep her. DaneRauschenburg wrote: No. Never buy it, after leasing it.

This porn chat norway no love story. Gotta love a broad who switches up her marketing plan mid stream in the attempt to set the hook. Don't do it. She already devalued herself.

She said that she has not seen anyone but me since late March. I have reason to believe her.

Jkhfcv wrote: She into butt stuff? Seriously dude. Old Man Runner. I don't she's getting pressure from anyone. It's more like up until now we've just hung out to do FWB stuff, and we mostly she would like to take things a bit further and see if there's more there. It's fun to actually do things with a partner of some kind like go for a day hike, visit a nearby city, etc. Part of me would like to test the waters with that stuff too, but I also don't want either of us to get too emotionally invested, and I think that could be a problem for her and possibly me. Can't answer this without Your situation sounds pretty similar to my current situation.

I do not yet feel ready to be monogamous, but it's also difficult to keep a "primary girl and naked women live chat few other girls" setup for the long term. What I would say free furry chat you and I'm trying to say to myself is, just be fair to her.

You really can't have a girlfriend and still be with other girls unless you cheat on her or have an open relationship. Do you want to get married or have kids one day?

Does she? Precious Roy. Replying to you and the guy below you.

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I know, I know. It's not fair, and the "ideal" is not really how relationships work. Bodybuilder chat room is 22 though, and many people don't want kids or marriage at that age. I didn't. But your thoughts and priorities change as you grow and time goes on. I do want kids I thinkbut definitely not any time soon. I don't really see this relationship ending with kids and marriage, and neither of us even want that for any relationship at this time in our lives, but for some reason it still seems a little off to invest a lot of texting chat lines in someone you know you aren't going to end up with.

Part of the dilemma is that I live in a university town with around 20, girls in the age range ofand I have done very well with that population. I have lots of options.

I know it's shallow, but when there are opportunities bi female chat sleep with various beautiful women every single week, it's kind of hard to just say no to all that. If I was with someone I considered the love of my life and someone I saw myself alternativa chat with 20 years from now it'd be different, but Jane is more like a good solid girl who is hot and I enjoy spending time with but sexchat bot is not the greatest match for me for a long term partner.

I also have baggage and think she could find someone more suitable for her than me for a long term partner as well. The more I think about it, the more I feel like I'm just not ready yet.

Maybe in a few more months, but not right now. Still open to more input though. Sounds like a plan. Aversion wrote: what would be ideal would be she be my primary girl but I also occasionally see other girls just for physical fun but nothing emotional. Well then do that. However you should realize that doing so will eventually morph into what she's asking for now.

Ah huh. Aversion wrote: Jane is more like a good solid girl who is hot and I enjoy spending time with but who is not the greatest match for me for a long term erotic chat bots. Why is she not a good match for long term?

Are you able to have good conversations with her?